MADD vigil unites
families for support, memories
By Adam Kovac
Journal and Courier - 12/13/00
It was hard for Debbie Landis to relive
the nightmare that brought her in front of about 60 others Tuesday
night, but it was also an honor for her to speak about a topic she feels
strongly about.
Her voice quivering at times, Debbie
recounted to other friends and family of victims of drunken drivers how
one person's irresponsibility took the life of her husband and
traumatized her family forever.
"On Dec. 27 of last year, Mike
Landis was not killed by accident. My husband of 21 years was pronounced
dead at the scene because of the irresponsible actions of a person
choosing to drink and drive," Landis said.
Landis was not alone in her sentiments at
Riehle Plaza, speaking during a candlelight vigil to remember those
injured or killed by drunken drivers.
It was the first such event sponsored by
the Greater Lafayette Mothers Against Drunk Driving to not only pay
tribute to lost friends and loved ones, but to offer support to many
survivors who are spending their first Christmas coping with the loss.
Some attendants wiped away tears as
Debbie told of the crash that killed her husband and seriously injured
her daughter, Laura.
Michael Landis, the athletic director at
McCutcheon High School and Laura, now a senior at McCutcheon, were en
route to attend the 2000 Outback Bowl when a drunken driver crossed six
lanes of traffic before slamming into their vehicle on Interstate 75 in
Georgia.
Laura was hospitalized for several days
following the crash.
Anyone could be a victim
For years, Mary Tremmel, area coordinator
for MADD, had never considered herself a victim. But all that changed
after an alcohol-related crash near her home on March 21, 1999, on
County Road 350 South.
"Then I realized that I am a
potential victim, my children are potential victims -- everyone I know
is a potential victim," Tremmel said.
Tremmel expressed hope that the vigil
would encourage people to act responsibly in addition to offering
support for those whose lives have been shattered by the effects of
drinking and driving.
As they filed to light candles, some
attendants at the vigil also paused to say a few words in memory of
grandchildren, cousins, husbands and sons killed in alcohol-related
crashes.
Among them was Dan Towery, for whom
lighting a candle in memory of his daughter, Sarah, and her boyfriend,
Chip Smith -- killed that Sunday morning near Tremmel's home -- is more
than a symbol of tribute.
"I can't do anything about what
happened," Towery said. "But in their memory we can do what we
can to prevent such needless destruction of life that was so
avoidable."